If you have small children, it can sometimes present a problem when you want to dine out. Many parents find themselves choosing venues which offer a multitude of activities to entertain their children, but the standard of food usually leaves a lot to be desired. When considering restaurants, Perth WA has a number of great choices which serve fantastic cuisine, but if you have small children you may be a little reluctant to introduce them to restaurant dining. However, it can be easy to introduce your toddler to this type of venue and improve their table manners at the same time.
• Pick the right venue:
The most important thing is to choose the right venue. Obviously the fanciest gourmet restaurant will not really provide a suitable venue for your toddler. Try to choose a restaurant which is family friendly and has a busy atmosphere which will prevent diners from being bothered if your toddler becomes boisterous. Check the venue is family friendly and has facilities such as booster seats to ensure your child can dine comfortably.
• Be realistic:
It is almost certain that your toddler will behave as they do at home. This may mean a little spilled food, possibly a few complaints about being sat at the table for an extended period or even a little tantrum. You will need to be prepared for this and be tolerant. If your child is currently having eating difficulties and you are engaged in a power struggle at every meal time, then perhaps this is not the right time to introduce a new dining environment.
• Explain the occasion:
You should take the time to explain to your toddler that they are receiving a special treat by dining out. Explain the behaviour that you expect and don’t be afraid to cancel the meal if they misbehave. Remember that this is a new environment for your toddler, so be aware that they may not be completely focused on finishing their food. Concentrate on teaching them socialisation skills by chatting over your meal, rather than forcing them to clear their plate.
• Let them choose their food:
Your chosen restaurant venue may not have a specific children’s menu, but that should not restrict your child from choosing their own food. Take a little time to go through their menu and point out suitable dishes. Explain the dishes and let your child decide which they would prefer. They may change their mind and end up swopping some of their food for yours but it can provide a little excitement for them.
• Pick the right venue:
The most important thing is to choose the right venue. Obviously the fanciest gourmet restaurant will not really provide a suitable venue for your toddler. Try to choose a restaurant which is family friendly and has a busy atmosphere which will prevent diners from being bothered if your toddler becomes boisterous. Check the venue is family friendly and has facilities such as booster seats to ensure your child can dine comfortably.
• Be realistic:
It is almost certain that your toddler will behave as they do at home. This may mean a little spilled food, possibly a few complaints about being sat at the table for an extended period or even a little tantrum. You will need to be prepared for this and be tolerant. If your child is currently having eating difficulties and you are engaged in a power struggle at every meal time, then perhaps this is not the right time to introduce a new dining environment.
• Explain the occasion:
You should take the time to explain to your toddler that they are receiving a special treat by dining out. Explain the behaviour that you expect and don’t be afraid to cancel the meal if they misbehave. Remember that this is a new environment for your toddler, so be aware that they may not be completely focused on finishing their food. Concentrate on teaching them socialisation skills by chatting over your meal, rather than forcing them to clear their plate.
• Let them choose their food:
Your chosen restaurant venue may not have a specific children’s menu, but that should not restrict your child from choosing their own food. Take a little time to go through their menu and point out suitable dishes. Explain the dishes and let your child decide which they would prefer. They may change their mind and end up swopping some of their food for yours but it can provide a little excitement for them.
• Praise your toddler:
Don’t forget to praise your toddler for appropriate good behaviour. If they begin to tire, then you may need to cut your meal short or use a reward scheme to ensure they behave well. Once they have experienced a restaurant atmosphere, it could provide a great reward or treat for future good behaviour.
Family meals in a restaurant can be an excellent way to introduce your child to table manners, socialisation and healthier eating. Try to concentrate on enjoying the occasion rather than worrying about how much they have eaten and if they are sitting perfectly still, in many family restaurants Perth WA staff are used to small children dining and will no doubt put them at ease.
